head to head
Neither is simply harder - they are hard in different places. Aegis Wing demands more execution; Grand Theft Auto: San Andreas demands more optimization.

Execution · Practiced Mastery
Co-op shmup testing dodge reflexes and memorised wave patterns.

Optimization · Practiced Mastery
A sprawling open-world crime epic with RPG-style character stats across a whole state.
Aegis Wing leans Execution (Practiced Mastery); Grand Theft Auto: San Andreas leans Optimization (Practiced Mastery).
Aegis Wing leans clearly harder on execution.
Aegis Wing
Dodging bullet waves is classic shmup reflex work
Grand Theft Auto: San Andreas
Flying school and drive-bys need decent hands
Same score on reads - which means the number cannot separate them. The difference is in what each one asks of you.
Aegis Wing
Enemy waves are scripted, not adaptive
Grand Theft Auto: San Andreas
Gang AI is scripted, never adaptive
Same score on variance - which means the number cannot separate them. The difference is in what each one asks of you.
Aegis Wing
Minor spawn randomness across difficulty modes
Grand Theft Auto: San Andreas
Territory wars and traffic add light randomness
Grand Theft Auto: San Andreas leans clearly harder on optimization.
Aegis Wing
Wave memorisation and co-op ship-linking have clear optima
Grand Theft Auto: San Andreas
Stats, gym, weapon skill, and routes reward systematic play
A matching score does not mean a matching test. Two games can both sit at 10 on execution and demand completely different things of you - which is why the reasoning above matters more than the number beside it.